The Loner

SOLO personalities often keep their self-worth low and their defenses high. Instead of reaching outward, they sometimes step back first and build a long wall around the soul that says, in very bold letters, 'Do not come closer.' Every brick in that wall used to be a wound. SOLO is the hedgehog that hides every soft spot and points its sharpest spines at the world. Those spikes are not only aggression. They are also unsent messages saying, 'Please don’t come near, I’m afraid you’ll get hurt too,' and at the exact same time, 'Please don’t leave.'